About James

Why I created FORGE

I'm James Hamell, a resilience coach and the author of Hope Through Discipline. FORGE grew out of my own experience of breaking down and finding a slow way back to structure and confidence.

James Hamell – resilience coach and founder of FORGE.

The experience that led to FORGE

I experienced a severe mental health crisis. It led to psychosis and to being hospitalised. When I came home, I didn't recognise myself — I'd lost my identity and my place in the world.

Rebuilding didn't happen overnight, and I won't make out that it did. It was slow, messy work, built through small daily actions: walking every day, cooking, building a routine, training, creating structure where there was none.

I learned to walk again, quite literally. I learned to feed myself properly. I learned to get through a day without it falling apart. None of it felt heroic. Most of it felt ordinary. Over time, that ordinary became a life I could stand on.

There were setbacks. I relapsed and was hospitalised again. What helped me return to stability was the same quiet work, done again — one small action, then the next.

That lived experience is why I built the FORGE Method: Foundation, Ownership, Resilience, Growth, Execution. A clear, practical way of rebuilding from the ground up.

Muay Thai, my faith, and a commitment to service have also shaped my own rebuilding. They inform how I think about structure, consistency, and meaning. FORGE brings those lessons into practical, non-clinical tools that people can use in their own lives.

If you're in crisis: FORGE is not suitable for acute mental health crisis support. If you are experiencing severe distress or suicidal thoughts, please contact your GP, NHS 111, Samaritans (116 123), or call 999 in an emergency.

Hope Through Discipline book cover by James Hamell

I wrote the full story in Hope Through Discipline: My Journey Back from Mental Illness. It's an honest account of breakdown, rebuilding, relapse, and what helped me stabilise — a place to read more, not a promise of the same path for anyone else.

Read more about the journey

The principles that shape FORGE today

What I learned rebuilding my own life is now written into everything FORGE puts out — resources, coaching, and workshops alike.

Stability first, then growth

You can't build a house from the roof down. You start with the foundation.

Small actions, not grand plans

Grand plans often fail. Daily habits rarely do. Start small. Adjust when a day is hard.

No shame around missed days

Missing a day doesn't mean starting from nothing. You adjust and carry on.

No pressure to push through regardless of capacity

The tools meet you where you are. A smaller version is still a version.

Lived experience, kept in its place

My path is mine. The resources are educational and non-clinical, not a guarantee of the same outcome for anyone else.

Relevant experience

What's relevant to whether FORGE could help you or your group — kept accurate and in scope.

Rebuilt my own life after severe mental illness

Breakdown, hospitalisation, relapse, and a slow return to structure and stability. This is the foundation of my work — not a claim that my path replicates for anyone else.

Resilience coaching approach

FORGE is designed as a resilience coaching and education resource for people rebuilding their lives. 1:1 coaching is currently in development and not yet available to book.

Author

Hope Through Discipline (a published memoir) and The Resilience Field Manual (a practical, evidence-informed workbook).

Workshops and group facilitation (in development)

Potential sessions for clinicians, service users, and public groups can be discussed. Workshops are not currently running; scope and availability are confirmed individually.

Worked within NHS mental health settings

Experience supporting people within mental health services.

Evidence-informed, educational scope

Built on behavioural psychology and lived experience. FORGE is educational and non-clinical — it is not treatment, therapy, or a substitute for professional care.

Try the starting exercise

If any of this resonates, the simplest place to begin is the free starting exercise. It's a small, concrete step — a single daily action you build around — not a promise of where you'll end up.